Saturday, 21 March 2015

Throwback Thursday: Babysitting Bedtime

Go check out some of my YouTube videos from 2 weeks ago. They are nothing special or fancy just a little clip of how cute my niece is!

My channel is: hansla1000 <-- a story for another time ;)

Friday, 20 March 2015

Clothing Haul!

I bought a load of clothes last week and today was the first time I've had a chance to try them all on. I ended up only keeping 3 items and they are all very similar but so comfy. And of course, they are all from Dorothy Perkins.

Stripe Swing Tunic - Black

It's a loose tunic and very comfortable. It definitely needs a belt with it but it will be perfect to wear either around the house or over a bikini in the summer.

Stripe Hanky Hem Tee - Navy
Green Hanky Hem Tee - Blue

I got 2 of the same tops but in different colours. The first is a similar pattern to my first item but a more traditional top, and the second is a green. It is more green green in person but I think it's great so I can wear it for next year's St Patrick's Day. I love the longer sides to cover problem areas and the slightly higher neck line means I can wear it for work. I'm not used to sleeves but I wore the striped today, and I have gotten used to it. i can see myself becoming addicted to these two tops.

Thursday, 12 March 2015

What does sex mean to you? 💕

So a friend text me today and asked me: What does sex mean to you? She is doing a research project for university on the topic and it made me think.

Straight away my answer was: love.

But the longer I thought, the more I wondered what other people would say.

What does sex mean to you? I know over the years it has changed dramatically. It is no longer - to most people - just for the confinement of marriage and most people have many sexual partners. It is a matter of personal opinion. I have nothing against people who have sex with multiple people or those who wait for marriage. I don't plan on doing either: waiting until marriage or many people. I am simply waiting for love. If I find love once or multiple times I shall wait and see. So many people regret their first time, even their first serious relationships being rushed and not thought out. I don't want that.

To me sex isn't just the process of intercourse; it's about the emotional ties to each other, yourself with the person you are in love with, and want to spend the rest of your life with. It is about being confident enough to do the most intimate act with someone. I want that someone to be a person that I care about and someone who cares about me in return. I don't want to be nervous, scared or afraid of judgement. When you have no worries or concerns, I think that is when you know you are ready.

Is making love different to sex? Is the act different or is it just with the involvement of less emotion?